The last few weeks have been an important reminder of the difference it makes when you talk to someone, tell someone, stop bottling everything up. It began during the Great Escape to Kerry, when the floodgates opened after a couple of glasses of wine. Since then I’ve not been able to stop!
And family and friends responded in ways I did not expect at all 😍
Just a few hours ago these lovely flowers were dropped in by a friend I haven’t seen in real life for a long time. I answered the door with my apron and a scowl expecting someone selling something, but Claire was gracious and we agreed that we MUST meet for coffee soon. And a commitment made in a blog post is totally binding, right?
My eldest is home for the week, and jumped at the offer of a proper family Sunday dinner with a roast chicken and all the trimmings. The leftovers have kept me in meals all week (note that I’m still a human dustbin, my mother’s influence from living through the War, and maybe reading Stig of the Dump too many times…).
A trip to the cinema with eldest also happened amidst a fair bit of chaos and I can’t tell you how good it felt to get away from it all for a couple of hours.
Helen, a longtime friend from my London days in the 1980s encouraged me to join in with her 30 day plank and squat challenge – just the kind of thing that helps distract me and gives me a sense of achievement when I feel like I’m failing at everything else. You can find out more at Fit Fab Fifty.
Finally I have to pay tribute to blogger Kate Sutton (@IAmWitWitWoo) who sadly died after a stroke earlier this week leaving a gaping hole in the blogging community that formed around 2010. Her huge personality lit up my twitter feed and her hilarious and honest accounts of dating in your 40s were always an entertaining read. My heart goes out to her two sons. Yet in the middle of all the sadness, there was an upside – her death brought me back into contact with some of the bloggers and former bloggers that I’d lost touch with over the years, and to hear how well their lives are going is a reason to be cheerful.
Have a great week xx