Falling into the Mental Health Abyss

We’re all told to mind our mental health, so practice self care and mindfulness, to talk about our problems, and pace ourselves. But what happens when that is not enough? What happens when you beg for help and it simply isn’t there?

I am dealing with this situation in relation to a family member right now; it is completely overwhelming and a huge struggle. It’s hard to think clearly about the problems here, let alone define the problems with the system, but others who’ve faced this before do understand and can see clearly, and it was comforting to read these words of wisdom from Jackie (@ja54kki) this morning, and please follow her on twitter.

When we had a major crisis here in the past , the services were basically the police. I remember asking an Educational Psychologist years ago if CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services) provided an emergency service – and the answer was ‘no’. There’s the gap that needs to be filled.

The police can only do so much. Accompany you to A&E if needed, and/or stay until things have calmed. Paramedics can help with injury and arrange emergency medication through an emergency GP. Then, you’re left. No support in place.

I believe there is an emergency social services number for a bed, but how the hell could you place an already stressed and anxious young person in a strange setting with strange people? Where is this “ wraparound” care I used to hear about? More meaningless jargon.

There needs to be support in place to come to your home in an emergency. Very often a fresh face helps to de- escalate. Not rocket science. We need a service like this desperately, we shouldn’t have to use police services in this way. Not fair on them or us. 

What do you think?

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